hypothetical questions...
Thursday, May 10, 2007
tagal ko ding naghibernate sa blogging world....
wala kasing pumapasok sa utak ko na kahit anong pdeng ipublish sa blog this past few days eh...
i'm wondering about something...
and i can't seem to find any answer to this one...
what if you found out that a person that you care for can no longer be with you because of certain reasons...?
well, that's easy, right?
you just have to make sure that the said person stays with you, right?
but, what if you can't do anything about it?
what if you can't just go and stop that person from leaving not because he doesn't want to stay with you but because you know that it would be for that person's own good?
but here's the catch: what if even though you know all of those things, you still don't want to let go?
total dilemma, right?
you know that it would be better if that person would go ahead and leave but you just don't want it to be that way....
which would prevail? your concern for that person's future or your own desire to be with that person?
simply said, the second choice seems to be "selfishness", right?
here's another catch: what if you're afraid to ask that person to stay because you know that if you do, then that person's gonna do what you said...?
here's another: what if you're also afraid of not saying anything because you know that it would hurt that person since it would seem that you don't care about the departure...?
what are you going to do, then?
oh by the way, those questions are hypothetical, okay?
this is my favorite quote...
i found this picture while browsing the net... actually, i had read the quote itself two years ago while reading a certain article...
i liked it so i memorized it...
from then on, it has always been my favorite...
hmm... i didn't think that there's an image like this so when i found it on the net, of course, well...
well, this quote's also great...
suits me perfectly... =D
yeah, never regret. because if you do, you will live your life futilely...
or i might say, you didn't exactly lived your life...
life is filled with choices... chances... risks....
you have to move forward... never look back... never hesitate...
just move forward...
when you encounter something bad, clear it up then move on...
never linger on memories... it would just make you feel bad...
when you encounter something good, enjoy it then move on...
never linger on the past...
however, never assume anything about the future either...
if you haven't crossed the road yet, then don't act as if you know everything about that road.
got it?
the present is what is important.
it would lead to the future, right?
and never have regrets.
whatever you do, do it so that no matter what, you wouldn't regret it.
and, always smile.
a smile might not help you solve your problems... but surely, it would keep you from insanity... surely, it would give you strength...
so, smile.
there is this line from an anime that i've watched that caught my attention...
"... your most desired wish and your most abominable nightmare, springing from the same league, how's that for you, young hero...?"
to obtain your wish, you must also experience your most detested nightmare?
good grief...
but, logically, that is true.
for everything that you take, you also have to give...
reaction law...
newton's third law...
rings a bell?
life may be really unfair...
oh yeah, life surely is unfair.
but, we can't afford to complain... well, actually, we can complain but that won;t do anything good to us, right?
an unfair game with life?
how's that for us...?
but, we can only one thing about it: play the game.
even if it's unfair...
sometimes, the winner doesn't really wins and the loser doesn't really loses...
sometimes, it's the other way around...
wala kasing pumapasok sa utak ko na kahit anong pdeng ipublish sa blog this past few days eh...
i'm wondering about something...
and i can't seem to find any answer to this one...
what if you found out that a person that you care for can no longer be with you because of certain reasons...?
well, that's easy, right?
you just have to make sure that the said person stays with you, right?
but, what if you can't do anything about it?
what if you can't just go and stop that person from leaving not because he doesn't want to stay with you but because you know that it would be for that person's own good?
but here's the catch: what if even though you know all of those things, you still don't want to let go?
total dilemma, right?
you know that it would be better if that person would go ahead and leave but you just don't want it to be that way....
which would prevail? your concern for that person's future or your own desire to be with that person?
simply said, the second choice seems to be "selfishness", right?
here's another catch: what if you're afraid to ask that person to stay because you know that if you do, then that person's gonna do what you said...?
here's another: what if you're also afraid of not saying anything because you know that it would hurt that person since it would seem that you don't care about the departure...?
what are you going to do, then?
oh by the way, those questions are hypothetical, okay?
this is my favorite quote...
i found this picture while browsing the net... actually, i had read the quote itself two years ago while reading a certain article...
i liked it so i memorized it...
from then on, it has always been my favorite...
hmm... i didn't think that there's an image like this so when i found it on the net, of course, well...
well, this quote's also great...
suits me perfectly... =D
yeah, never regret. because if you do, you will live your life futilely...
or i might say, you didn't exactly lived your life...
life is filled with choices... chances... risks....
you have to move forward... never look back... never hesitate...
just move forward...
when you encounter something bad, clear it up then move on...
never linger on memories... it would just make you feel bad...
when you encounter something good, enjoy it then move on...
never linger on the past...
however, never assume anything about the future either...
if you haven't crossed the road yet, then don't act as if you know everything about that road.
got it?
the present is what is important.
it would lead to the future, right?
and never have regrets.
whatever you do, do it so that no matter what, you wouldn't regret it.
and, always smile.
a smile might not help you solve your problems... but surely, it would keep you from insanity... surely, it would give you strength...
so, smile.
there is this line from an anime that i've watched that caught my attention...
"... your most desired wish and your most abominable nightmare, springing from the same league, how's that for you, young hero...?"
to obtain your wish, you must also experience your most detested nightmare?
good grief...
but, logically, that is true.
for everything that you take, you also have to give...
reaction law...
newton's third law...
rings a bell?
life may be really unfair...
oh yeah, life surely is unfair.
but, we can't afford to complain... well, actually, we can complain but that won;t do anything good to us, right?
an unfair game with life?
how's that for us...?
but, we can only one thing about it: play the game.
even if it's unfair...
sometimes, the winner doesn't really wins and the loser doesn't really loses...
sometimes, it's the other way around...
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